Coronation Street hit the headlines this week when Owen Armstrong smacked his stepdaughter in Monday night’s episode.
Smacking children has always been a controversial and emotive subject. MP John Cumming was quoted as saying that it is better that a child is disciplined than to grow up ‘untamed’. I believe that there are far more effective ways of disciplining a child.
All children need clear boundaries and positive parenting ensures that children are clear about what constitutes acceptable behaviour at every stage of their development. At every age, from toddler through to teenager, children will push their parents and carers to the limit, but this is designed to test the boundaries, and clear boundaries and consistent sanctions actually help children feel safe; a teenager pushing to stay out late at a party may actually be looking for their parent to say no in order to avoid losing face with their peers by admitting they don’t want to GO.
Smacking a child, on the other hand, is an abuse of parental power on every level, especially if smacking in anger. This is both physically abusive and also shows a complete loss of control,...


If Christmas leaves you feeling pricklier than a holly bush, then help is at hand! The British Association of Anger Management (BAAM) is once again helping you have a calm Christmas and beat seasonal stress with its annual Anger Awareness Week, taking place nationwide from December 1-7, 2011.
In The Daily Mail today (August 5th 2011) their reporter suggests that “Teachers should be given shin pads.” This is responding to calls from the main Teachers union the GMB. 

